Harvard Business Review posted a blog post called “Beautiful women don’t ask“In which the researcher argues that women often get what they are content for at work, as women are usually socialized from a young age not promote their own interests and focus instead on the needs of others. Furthermore, the culture of many companies literally penalizes women when they ask for what they want. In addition, many women are not alone never ask what they want at work, but also never ask for what they want in relationships. Conversely, men demand much more at work as well as at home.
Women may feel frustrated with having to specify what they really want.
‘I am a strong and independent woman, but when I need my man, he should know because he loves me. I shouldn’t ask, I should? ‘ – This is what many women are thinking about actually.
Apparently, mind reading should be avoided in all relationships. And yet, sadly, that’s exactly what many women are thinking about. This is especially true in Western countries. No wonder more and more guys in Western countries are looking for Eastern European women who are generally able to ask what they want honestly. Also, online dating is the primary way for Western men to meet Eastern European women these days.
Well, please let me use female psychology to explain why women think so – Maybe not every woman is consciously thinking about this; however, a large number of women may think it is less romantic / meaningful if they have to ask directly.
She is aware that something it is not right and she thinks her man should fix it.
In Western culture, many women still think that it is the responsibility of men to solve problems in romantic relationships. Sad but true.
In truth, an individual is 100% responsible for their own happiness in life. (If everyone has this attitude and this mindset, then this planet is sure to become a better place.)
Additionally, most individuals have never learned to communicate effectively in relationships. Most of the population learns things through trial and error (they learn it the hard way). Unfortunately, sometimes He can not even learning the valuable lessons after a romantic relationship has ended painfully.
When it comes to emotions, men are not the strongest kind.
“It’s probably not as strong as you think it is, “Says Wala Truscott, Australian marriage therapist,”My heart really hurts when I hear boys defeat and the sound of exhaustion – they are desperate for change and are eager to be the ideal partner that lights up their woman’s heart and soul. “
In Australia, an increasing number of men are looking for Eastern European women because … never really get along with australian women. According to Wala Truscott, this is what he often hears:
“My ex-wife and I had a genuine bond, but of course she was unhappy. But I really don’t know why. “
“My ex-wife stopped showing me love / affection”.
“I was too afraid to tell my ex-wife how unhappy I was in that marriage.”
Wala argues that most of the distance between two people is not because they are not in love, but because the woman is exhausted or avoids her emotional pain or feelings. Meanwhile, the men know women are exhausted; however, men also suffer and they went of which they really know how to help their women. (It’s nobody’s fault because everyone is doing what they can with what they know and the schools and universities never taught us how to communicate effectively in romantic relationships.) This is why the divorce rate is high and now many Australian men are looking to marry Eastern European women.
Men want women to open their hearts sincerely. They also want to authentically connect with women, including women’s strengths and weaknesses. They want women to feel safe doing this. Still, many women expect men to know what to do, but mind reading is hard!
Wala states that two individuals can sit facing each other on the floor and give each other maximum attention and presence. So two people can be vulnerable and ask for what they want honestly. Just talk without distractions and reconnect by looking into each other’s eyes while talking.
“Online dating is the primary way for guys from Western countries to meet Eastern European women.”