Many men are not very good at having conversations on a first date because they are nervous. They might treat the first date as an opportunity to exchange resumes with standard questions like “What do you do?” and where are you from? “There is nothing wrong with these initial questions, but if you want both of you to open up about who you really are, flirt and tell unforgettable stories, you have to be more creative of that. You don’t want to be split into friendly zones by a Ukrainian woman and a first date should be something fun and something you can’t wait to do. With that in mind, I’ll introduce some ways to ensure a wonderful first date.
- Of which dwell about the past; of which focus about the past.
Many people talk about their past on a first date, but that’s a mistake. When you are on a first date with a Ukrainian woman, you want her to see that you have an interesting lifestyle that you like and future plans that you are very excited about.
Talk like you can’t wait for what will happen in the near future so that the Ukrainian lady will get excited too, because she will want to be a part of that excitement.
On the contrary, if only dwell in the past, it will think you come with Baggage or believe your best days are already behind you.
Remember: there are more men who are excited about their future attractive; so, make sure you have future projects you can talk to passion we have the first date.
- Don’t ignore the file the basics.
Maybe you think you already know the importance of eye contact is smiling on a first date, right? I understand that they are very simple, but you might be surprised to know that many men don’t even apply them on first dates.
Some men move their eyes to the floor or always hold their cocktail glass because they are very nervous. Some men keep a neutral facial expression for hours on a first date because they are too nervous to laugh or smile. These are extremely common.
Note that starting the first date with a You smile it is very important, but many men forget to do it. When you have a big smile on your face, you look more accessible. You become someone who can do it instantly brighten the date walking on with high energy and a big smile. Women are attracted to men with high energy – when a Ukrainian woman sees a man with great energy, his mood also changes.
Don’t ignore the basics – the basics are small, yet they are powerful.
- What a to avoid do we have a first date?
Never fall into these traps is pitfalls:
# 1. Don’t talk about yours ex wives is ex girlfriends.
Don’t even mention the anecdotes about your ex girlfriends or ex wives. It doesn’t matter if an anecdote is relevant to the situation or not, the fact that your ex is an interesting topic on a first date will turn a Ukrainian woman off. Even if you tell this Ukrainian woman how much you do dislike your ex, you may think this indicates how good you are over your ex, but sadly you’re just doing the in front of.
Also, if you indicate that you have left a long thong of terrible relationships with your ex wives and ex girlfriends, ukrainian lady may start wondering if she is you who actually has the problems instead of your ex wives or ex girlfriends.
Whenever you complain about your ex, you come across like play the victim. It’s a Red flag.
When you play the victim, the Ukrainian woman will feel that you still have problems and will come with many emotional baggage where she will have to help you. But this is not his responsibility.
# 2. Don’t talk about your insecurities.
Many men have these insecurities: height, age, hair, weight, and so on. That’s why they take compliments badly.
Remember: Ukrainian women love congratulations men, but they hate reassuring men.
When you receive a compliment, smile and thank her sincerely. You have the right to appreciate the compliment. Yet don’t make it repeat.
Here is a list of bad examples:
- “Oh, I’m not beautiful at all. There are many other handsome men in this city. “
- “Do you really believe that I am a attractive guy? “
- “I haven’t had a date in a long time because I am too old. “
The ability of to accept compliments are very, very crucial.
“The moment when a Ukrainian woman feels like she is deliberately trying to avoid making waves, will be bored on the first date. “